3 Signs Of A Toxic Relationship

No one ever sets out to be in an unhealthy relationship. We all strive for a version of happily ever after, where our needs and those of our partners are met in a shared life we build together. But, for whatever reason, sometimes that doesn’t happen. Instead, what we thought was promising turns out to be toxic.

Maybe the relationship no longer feels enjoyable, though you still love your partner so much. For some reason, you always seem to rub each other the wrong way or can’t seem to stop arguing over minor issues. You might even dread the thought of seeing them, instead of looking forward to it as you did in the past.

Below, we will explore some signs of toxicity in a relationship that you should pay attention to.

1. Lack of support

When things turn toxic, every achievement becomes a competition.

In short, the time you spend together no longer feels positive. You don’t feel supported or encouraged, and you can’t trust them to show up for you. Instead, you might get the impression that your needs and interests don’t matter, that they only care about what they want.

2. Toxic communication

Instead of kindness and mutual respect, most of your conversations are filled with sarcasm or criticism.

Every relationship should experience respect and empathy, when having communication with your partner you should approach them with kind words that would soften their emotions, not you creating drama.

3. Envy or jealousy

While it’s perfectly fine to experience a little envy from time to time, it can become an issue if your envy keeps you from thinking positively about your partner’s successes.

The same goes for jealousy. Yes, it’s a perfectly natural human emotion. But when it leads to constant suspicion and mistrust, it can quickly begin to erode your relationship.